My Thoughts Right Now

March 25th, 2008

[1]

Growing pains are real. Or something is real. Violet is not unhappy overall the last two days, but neither is she, oh, SLEEPY. She requires physical comforting to remain content or, say, ASLEEP. For 48 hours, she has required constant holding and has preferred to sleep in chunks of no more than ten minutes—and since this does not count as sleep, I want to say that for 48 hours she has slept only 5-6 hours total. She frequently lets out a short burst of pained crying, and it doesn’t resemble the crying she did when her stomach and gut were upset. Nor do other symptoms point to a gut problem. (BTW I tried going two days with no milk and noticed no difference, so I think if she has food issues they originate elsewhere.) But the point is, WHY IS THIS BABY SO AWAKE AND ALERT GRANDMOTHER YOU DID SPOIL HER HOLDING HER ALL THE TIME!

[2]

A rant: Old crones who say things to a new mother like, “That baby’s too little to be out,” or “It’s too hot out to be walking such a little baby,” are obnoxious, and by obnoxious, I mean ignorant and rude and presumptuous and mean. New mothers are insecure enough without having to hear from old hags in public places who make false assumptions about the care of a baby they see, a baby who is none of their business and who, by the way, is extremely well cared for. I wish I had the nerve to say, “And you are too old and judgmental to be opening your stupid, old, judgmental mouth.”

[3]

Lest you think I am grumpy, I hereby celebrate that bath time has become a wonderful time! See for yourself!

Also, the extreme cuteness continues to be extreme.

[4]

I have watched some good things lately. So I recommend …

[a] Dexter—we are partway through the first season on Apple-TV, and I have never been so sad to see an episode end, nor so eager to move right along to the next episode. Great!

[b] Breaking Bad—interesting characters and premise, and some great acting (a lot of “turns” that shouldn’t be believable, but are, because Bryan Cranston somehow pulls them off). Can’t wait to find out what happens next.

[c] No Country for Old Men—Yes, it’s great, etc. etc.

[d] Michael Clayton—I liked this better than “No Country,” actually. I was just more entertained and moved during this movie, and it’s challenging/engaging to keep up with the plot.

[e] Meet the Robinsons—I can’t believe no one ever mentioned this movie to me. HOW! CUTE! And truly funny.

On a related sidenote, Apple-TV has changed my life, and I’m luxuriating in the fact that my husband works in the industry we’ll umbrella-ize as special-effects/movies/gaming so that we “really must,” in order for him to remain “up” on his industry, have this Apple-TV and Blu-Ray player and surround-sound. Sigh. The burden of maintaining one’s career!

6 Responses to “My Thoughts Right Now”

  1. cindy Says:

    As for the old crones: I highly recommend you reply with, “It’s too hot for a polyester blend.”

    As for Violet: She’ll sleep eventually. My mom said that once I discovered that keeping her eyes open meant discovering the world, I fought sleep like a mortal enemy out of fear that it would cause me to miss out on all of the neat things there are to see and do. She’s got a curious mind, that’s all.

  2. cindy Says:

    Sorry, “keeping MY eyes open” and “Violet has a curious mind.”

  3. Abigail Says:

    I firmly believe that growing is hard work for little babies and they grow SO MUCH in the first three months.

    Yes, those judgemental people need to shut it. I concur.

  4. GRANDMOTHER Says:

    Yes, I did spoil her and I am proud that I could. She and I are “bed buddies.” Put her in bed with you in the day bed and see if that works. I miss her, didn’t think I would, but I do.

  5. dad Says:

    Stevel, you are he bath king. Look at that excited/pleased face. She is cute beyond words.

    Grandmother was fighting falling so deeply in love with Violet, because she knew she would miss her so much. But her goose was cooked after day one. As was mine and anyone else who meets her.

    She has grown since we left on saturday.I think you will get your wish Krissy. She is going to be interactive sooner than you can imagine.

    Watch out World, Violet Lavites is coming to your heart, soon.

  6. Mama Says:

    Don’t let those “old mothers” get to you. They just like to pretend that they are old and wise when all they really are is old and obnoxious.

    Just decide that you won’t EVER be like them, and then try to resist the temptation to give some young mom advice when YOU are an “old mother” yourself in 40 or 50 years.

    I think she’s beginning to like her bath! And how modest she is – with that little wash rag over her front for her photo shoot! What a DOLL!

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