All Bets Are Off

September 24th, 2008

There’s a lot to catch you up on, so very quickly …

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We had a wonderful trip to Oregon recently, where we enjoyed the crisp, pre-fall mornings and hot afternoons in Corvallis and were treated to the company of Steve’s family and our friends the Kissers and Kate in Portland. You can check out
photos here.

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No sooner were we back at No. 6 than we headed out to Palm Springs for a relaxing overnight. Steve’s sister Debi (from Corvallis) had a conference there, and it’s just two hours from Santa Monica and such a fun getaway. Debi said, “We’re going to get together every weekend now, right?” I do wish. What a good time.

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I’m teaching my one class at Otis, and I have an enjoyable group of students this semester. Engaged, positive, on-board, and all at 3:45 in the afternoon. So it’s going well. I teach one day a week, and Stevel comes home from work early to stay with Vibble.

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Speaking of Vibble, ALL BETS ARE OFF. I don’t know if it’s the teething or some kind of seven-month-mark phase or her true personality coming out or what, but she is a bit moody, and anything resembling a schedule or consistent demeanor … well, I just can’t predict her. She is still the world’s smiliest baby, still LOVES people everywhere we go. But she cries quite a bit more now, crawls around crying a lot. Pulls herself to standing and stands there and cries. Cries a lot at night in her sleep (or wakes up and cries). Sometimes she cries because she is being restrained. Sometimes, because no one is holding her. Sometimes because I have left the room. Others, because I have ENTERED the room. Cries because she is hungry, cries because we have put her in her high chair and suited her up with a bib. Cries—SHRIEKS—because we are trying to change her diaper and would like her to remain on her back on the changing table for five seconds. Cries about twenty times a day because she has fallen backwards and bumped her little head.

But then she will be happy as can be for hours with no complaints. I don’t know how to make this happen on purpose. I just enjoy it when it comes. The rest of the time, I go down the list. Teething pain? We have MANY solutions to help with this, from a frozen washcloth to Orajel to Tylenol. Hungry? Bananas? Cereal? (If I could just stop her from snorting them all up her nose.) Sleepy? She still calms to the swaddle. Want to crawl? Want to cruise? Change of scene? Need a little Baby-Einstein-in-your-swing time? (Amazing how miraculously this sometimes works; the reaction on her face reminds me of when I’m really stressed out and step into a hot bath.) Most often, the only thing she wants is to be in my arms. “Hold me, Mom.” OK. We live in 15-to-20-minute chunks. Change it up often, that’s the Vibble ideal. But a schedule? Not so much. I mean, some days she does her “usual” thing, but other days, it’s up in the air when she will sleep, for how long, how much she will eat, etc. Fortunately, she still does the whole night-sleeping thing for the most part.

Meanwhile, the crawling is quite accomplished. She is compelled to pull herself up now on anything she can reach. This involves a lot of falling down. A LOT. And also a lot of crying while standing, presumably because she’s not sure how to get down without falling?

Summary: She is more enjoyable than ever … and more work than I imagined. Hm. Also, her cheeks are tasty. I eat them frequently.

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Kelly is here! Hooray!!!!!

3 Responses to “All Bets Are Off”

  1. dad Says:

    It is her teething. It makes her miserable for no reason at all. It hurts having those hard teeth cut through her tender gums. OUCH.

    She has no other way to communicate then to cry and whine..I hurt Mommy. Make it go away.

    It is a tough time for all three of you. Have you gotten any of the freezer nuks? They make ones that can be kept in the freezer. They are rings of icy stuff that soothes the gums of the pain.

    And just FYI, this is basic stuff. Wait until the T Two’s and those fantastic Teenage years.

    You know you can always leave her with Pauline and I for about 18 years. We would let you visit sometimes.

  2. Abigail Says:

    Teething stinks, for all concerned. Also, my kids got frustrated with all the stuff they were figuring out how to do, crawl, sit up, walk etc. Niels used to sit up in bed and cry because he was awake when he was learning to sit up. Poor dude.

    Poffertjes at the Corvallis farmer’s market!? We will have to stop there next time we go up!

  3. jer Says:

    We must have caught her in one of her peaceful phases… she was fun and happy the entire trip to the Apple Store and to Akbar. SO CUTE!!!

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